• The heartthrobs of the ’90s captured the imaginations of millions, and one in particular has managed to keep that spell alive well into his 60s.
• With eyes described by fans as “crystals” and a charm that hasn’t faded over the years, this actor continues to make hearts flutter.
• Now 61, he has embraced the natural aging process, showcasing his gray hair and proving that beauty only gets better with time.

Born on July 22, 1963, in Norfolk, Virginia, this actor rose to fame through unforgettable roles in hit TV shows like “Silk Stalkings,” “Melrose Place,” and “90210.”

His talent and good looks made him a household name, particularly during the height of his career in the ’90s. However, it wasn’t just his acting that kept people hooked—his crystal-blue eyes were his signature, earning him a legion of devoted fans.

Fans frequently gush over his Instagram posts, where his naturally aging look, complete with gray hair, has drawn comments like, “Aging like fine wine” and “Still a hot man! A year older than me and looking great.”

Other fans praise him for staying true to himself. “You look amazing! Naturally youthful. You are living well, congrats!” one fan wrote, capturing the sentiment shared by many. Another echoed this admiration, reminiscing, “My teenage crush.”

His eyes have always been a defining feature, a detail that his fans have never forgotten. And while the sands of time have shifted, revealing the silver streaks in his hair, his mesmerizing eyes—still as bright and clear as ever—remain a focal point of admiration.

Fans often comment on them, with one saying, “Oh, those beautiful eyes of yours,” while another simply stated, “Your eyes are literally crystals.” Another fan summed up, “One of my favorite male actors. Keeps on getting better looking as he ages.”

His decision to age naturally, without resorting to cosmetic interventions, stands out in an industry often obsessed with youth. It’s a choice that has only deepened the connection between him and his fans, who see him not just as a former heartthrob, but as someone who represents authenticity and self-acceptance.

Over the years, he transitioned from being the object of millions of teenage crushes to a dedicated husband and father. Despite the changes in his personal life, Rob Este’s appeal has never waned.

The Actor in the 90s

The Actor in the 2000s

2010s

In 2010, he married Erin Bolte, a teacher who shared his vision of a grounded, family-oriented life. Together, they decided to settle in the peaceful beachside town of San Clemente, California.

This move was a deliberate choice to provide their son, Makai, with a serene and nurturing environment, far removed from the hustle and bustle of Los Angeles. “There’s definitely not the stressed-out L.A. vibe in San Clemente. It’s way laid-back,” his wife shared in 2017.

They settled into the beachside community, that offered the serenity and space they needed to raise their family. The actor has two older children, Mason and Maya, from his previous marriage to fellow “Melrose Place” alum Josie Bissett.

While Mason lived with them in San Clemente and attended San Clemente High School, Maya resided in Seattle with her mother but visited regularly.

The actor and Bissett managed to maintain a positive co-parenting relationship, ensuring that their children felt supported and connected to both sides of the family.

The couple’s choice of San Clemente was influenced by several factors, including the quality of education for their children. The move also offered them more space.

Their four-bedroom house by the beach was a significant upgrade from the smaller, more expensive options they had in Santa Monica. Living in what they describe as a “bubble” by the beach, the family embraced a lifestyle centered on togetherness and shared experiences.

Their move to the town also holds special significance for the couple, as Erin lived there when they first met. They were set up on a blind date by mutual friends, and it was in this town that they had their first date.

At the time, Estes was splitting his time between Seattle and Los Angeles, without a permanent residence in Los Angeles. He was staying with his sister in San Clemente when he met Erin. Later, Estes landed a role in “The Women’s Murder Club” and secured a place in Santa Monica.

Despite the demands of his career, the actor makes it a point to be present at home, where family dinners are a nightly tradition. “Eighty to ninety percent of the time, we all have dinner together every night,” he explained. Their commitment to family values is evident in their everyday routines.

The Bolte-Estes household has a strict “no electronics at dinner” rule, ensuring that mealtime is an opportunity for conversation and bonding. For them, it’s about creating a space where they can unwind, disconnect from the outside world, and focus on each other.

Erin emphasized, “We’re a strong non-electronic family, and at night our routine with Makai is books, teeth, books, bed.” This focus on family and simplicity has become a defining characteristic of their life in San Clemente.

2020s

When it comes to relaxation, the actor finds solace in music and gardening. Playing music has been a passion of his since his school days, and it remains an essential part of his life.

Gardening is another way he finds peace, particularly when he’s feeling stressed. “Trees go away when Rob’s not happy,” Boltre joked, highlighting how he channels his energy into working in their garden. Whether chopping down trees or tending to plants, these activities give him a sense of calm and fulfillment.

Away from the pressures of fame, the actor has found peace and contentment in his role as a husband and father. He relishes the small moments that come with raising a family in a place that truly feels like home.

This quieter life didn’t mean the end of his career, but rather a redefinition of success. He has continued to act, albeit selectively, choosing roles that resonated with him personally rather than chasing the fame that once defined him.

In December 2023, fans were thrilled to see him return to the screen in the trailer for the movie “Beautiful Wedding.” This latest role showcases that even as he has embraced a quieter, family-oriented life, his passion for acting remains strong.

Living in San Clemente with his wife, Erin, and their blended family, he has found happiness in simplicity. The choice to prioritize family, education, and a slower pace of life has allowed him to thrive away from the spotlight. Estes, 61, has proven that true success is measured not by fame but by the quality of one’s personal life.